My S.O. just issued me an order

Dear Reader, Well,well, well. I just had breakfast – a spicy mixture of “dried rice” along with peanuts – and it was awesome. For those not in the know, it’s some sort of South Indian (as in sub-continent) delicacy. While I’ve never ever been to Southern India (except for Goa, on holiday), it remains one …

A few hours short of 2 months!

Dear Reader, Well,  the dam FINALLY burst. The floodgates finally done opened – poured, as it were. The torrents “emanated” like cannonballs from the mouth of a massive cannon pointed skyward. Boom, boom, boom! Now, neither am I referring to some medieval form of warfare here – – and nor am I referring to nature’s …

How long have I been chaste for?

Dear Reader, As I sit here typing this, a lady just appeared in the house behind mine. I saw her from the window. A middle aged and fairly attractive, and FULLY clothed lady with a bathtowel on her head, and a toothbrush in her mouth. She had clearly just woken up, and her hair was …

Its all about having FUN!

Dear Reader, Often times folks have a tendency to complicate things further than they should be – and this applies to life as much as it does fetish, or BDSM in general. We often analyze – over analyze – worry – and in general, (as the Chinese love to say) “think too much” about what …

Safe, sane and consensual …

Dear Reader, I woke up this morning to a message on my Twitter account from a person I’ve been communicating with over the past few days. This person is about to enter into a new sort of femdom relationship with his Goddess – – one in which he’ll be locked up. Locked up, a.ka. chastity …

Being comfortable with who you REALLY are

Dear Reader, Many moons ago, I remember a (then) girl friend of mine screaming at me in front of the sorority dorms in the Southern United States. “No, we’re not breaking up! We’re going into counseling TOMORROW! We can get past this!” The tiff in question was (in the grand scheme of things) a bit …