My S.O. just issued me an order

Dear Reader, Well,well, well. I just had breakfast – a spicy mixture of “dried rice” along with peanuts – and it was awesome. For those not in the know, it’s some sort of South Indian (as in sub-continent) delicacy. While I’ve never ever been to Southern India (except for Goa, on holiday), it remains one …

A few hours short of 2 months!

Dear Reader, Well,  the dam FINALLY burst. The floodgates finally done opened – poured, as it were. The torrents “emanated” like cannonballs from the mouth of a massive cannon pointed skyward. Boom, boom, boom! Now, neither am I referring to some medieval form of warfare here – – and nor am I referring to nature’s …

Its all about having FUN!

Dear Reader, Often times folks have a tendency to complicate things further than they should be – and this applies to life as much as it does fetish, or BDSM in general. We often analyze – over analyze – worry – and in general, (as the Chinese love to say) “think too much” about what …

Safe, sane and consensual …

Dear Reader, I woke up this morning to a message on my Twitter account from a person I’ve been communicating with over the past few days. This person is about to enter into a new sort of femdom relationship with his Goddess – – one in which he’ll be locked up. Locked up, a.ka. chastity …