Do it like SHE wants, prefers!

Waking up in the middle of the night – or early morning XO – whichever the case might be – to write this to you!

I haven’t been able to sleep most of the night. That Goddess, the Indian beggar woman I saw yesterday afternoon, the magnificent sole I wrote about so on payelagumalkin.com, my!!!! What a contrast that grimy BIG sole made with the lovely shin!

Anyway…

Anytime while massaging Bhagwatis feet, even now – I’ll often ask her gently to tell me if I’m not doing it right.

Not that I wouldn’t.

But, like I keep saying – every woman is different – her feet need to be studied and massaged differently!

If she is on the heavier side, wears heels and such, her calves will need more attention. For women into sports with longer feet – focus on the balls, the arch more. And so forth.

You, as the devoted footboy must know – feel – these things and then DO them – as she prefers.

And even if you do it right, her preference might change over time my friend. Therefore, keep asking her to tell you!

Talk to her soles, boy!

Get to know them – every lowest, dirtiest part of her body – intimately!

That’s a lesson well drummed in in all my writings, the hugely successful femdom affirmations – but “as she prefers” is key as well. Never about your preference. Always Madams! Doing it is great. But doing it HER way is what makes it super extra special!

Maybe that lesson IS present in the affirmations in some way, shape or form in each of them. XO.

Back to getting to know them – the same thing applies to her laundry. Her dirty dishes. Her panties you must hand wash even without her asking. And so forth…

My one time tutor lying there like a king – would often tell his poor servant “tere ko jaise bola hai waise daba’.

Massage like I told you,boy!

He’d say the same thing to his father. Haa. True case of the White Tiger there…

But anyway, the lesson begets.

I always, without exception ask Madam to tell me if I’m doing the dishes the way SHE prefers, hanging the laundry like SHE likes. Most women will be more than happy to tell you if you do it in the right spirit my friend!

I still remember my SO training me on how to do dishes. I was doing them fine – but she has this unique way of saving soap on every wash – or maybe water, not sure..

And I made sure to do it that way!

She wanted me to be done before Bhagwati came in. Hehe. Maybe so the lovely maid would have less to do?

Nah. So the FBI as she calls her wouldn’t tattle about Madam making her partner do the dishes! Hehe.

And so it goes.

Remember this one.

Remember them all.

Serve with an open heart.

It’s what makes life worth living.

Best,

Mike Watson