I saw a post today on Twitter made by an Indian lady about how her ex came groveling back to get after three years, how’s he apologizing nigh profusely for every little mistake he made and more.
From a femdom (in general) standpoint you’d think ideal, heaven, right?
Not so fast my friend. Not so fast!
And if you’re nodding your heads dg this point, knowing what I’m about to say you’re already way ahead of the game as you should be and remain and strive for MORE. Kudos!
Your big head that is. Hehe.
Puns aside – those that aren’t?
In “A complete guide to understanding dominant ladies from mainland China“, I write about something – one line – that is much overlooked.
“Nobody wants a doormat”.
And it’s true.
You can be the most groveling, submissive to an extreme person and yet demand – command – extreme in equal measures respect – which you’ll get without asking if you’re doing it right.
Most dont get it…
Let’s take two examples.
One, dude above.
I have often said, rightly so – that things, relationships, anything – ends for a damn good reason. Life, like it or not always comes full circle, is never stagnant.
Going back to what was rarely, if ever works.
It ended for a reason. Who both people are at their core. Strangely, often times, the very things that caused attraction in the first place are what cause breakups once you attach “labels” to the relationship (one prime reason I have never been one for labels including marriage – I’ve seen many a previously lovely relationship go down the toilet due to unspoken expectations etc once the label is attached. I haven’t just seen them, I’ve experienced a few too!).
If she leaves you, he leaves you – work on yourself.
You’ll attract someone better – meant for you. Period.
Now, case two – guys or girls that spiral into certain modes of depression due to this.
You can use the anger constructively or destructively – either way, feelings that cut deep will manifest. Either positively or negatively. It’s your choice. I chose the former and got into the best shape of my life for one…
But either way, folks that come back groveling, apologizing for the very thing that turned the other party on, who they are, changing themselves at their core?
Unless that core is truly rotten it smacks of one thing – desperation.
And noone likes that vibe, period.
Cucks who women otherwise seek out wanting women to cuckold them and TRULY comfortable with it and enjoying it.
Vs…
So called cucks who only do it out of desperation, because they think they can’t find any other option,or have any …
Who do you think a woman would want – seek out – respect – etc?
It’s obvious.
And if you’re truly number two and have realised “this is your lot” – at least be comfortable enough with it. Honestly!
That alone will gather you much more respect then the desperate vibe!
And that, my friend is a central key to making cuckolding work for you. Plenty more mentioned in Cuck Central. It’s for good reason every reader has learnt a hell of a lot from that book as all of mine.
Cuckolding done right is a beautiful thing for both parties. Trust me.
One of the most erotic too!
Done wrong, the polar opposite.
Like with everything, all else I say, teach …
Do it right or not at all.
And remember, being a doormat is never ever a turn on regardless!
Best,
Mike Watson
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