Last night, I was in a livestream a lady set up for her foot show – well, her FOOT fans – who LOVE her foot content, and she’s an older Indian lady doing this -so nice!!!
She was talking to all her admirers during the live show – which she does quite often.
She was exhausted, but still making an effort to answer each and everyone of the “barrage” of messages – some utterly meaningless. And she was enjoying a lot of it too!
And, selling her content most likely, and her subscriptions and so forth.
Now, contrast this with what a lot of financial – or other – dommes do – either male or female.
Its sadly all “take, take, take” which never works, does it?
True, subs can be great at wasting time and wanting freebies… there’s a limit to that too. And no-one would deny the importance of an initial tribute, yet, whose to say the person doesn’t completely change after that tribute?
I’ve had it happen to me – I’ve been on both sides of this game, my friend.
I’ve had ladies I’ve paid take the money – then do nothing much at all to “dominate” – but then come back the instant they needed more money. No talk, nothing, no contact even in the middle .. thats not true “domination” of any nature my friend.
And of course, I’ve written so much about subs that just expect “free fetish shows” and such.
Neither way works long term, because it’s “take, take, take” going on my friend.
Real life, fetish, all of it works on GIVE and take, and you have to give FIRST.
The best subs, the best Dominas, Doms, in some way shape or form – they GIVE.
It could be their time.
Their expertise. Their money. It could be something, but they GIVE.
Nothing is more annoying for a true sub, for instance, to never have their TRUE needs satisfied.
And, nothing is more annoying for a true Dom/Domina to have freebie seekers lining up at their proverbial door …
Findom is one of those cases where lots of people think its about easy money.
No it’s not my friend.
Unless you understand domination and the PYSCHES behind it well enough, you’ll never be able to either dominate well enough – or be the right submissive.
You have to be on both ends of the spectrum in order for it to work …
And yours truly HAS been on both ends of the spectrum.
All boils down to domination and submission at the end, my friend.
And these two books my friend, contain all you need to learn about domination – as a start.
A complete guide to understanding dominant ladies from mainland China.
And that, my friend is that.
Remember – give and take.
Give FIRST.
And you’ll get more than you bargained for or ever believed!
Believe me, this truism applies to ALL areas of life …
Best,
Mike Watson
PS – Remember your femdom affirmations too. Affirm regularly, you cannot go wrong, because these are affirmations done the RIGHT way, not the wrong way which most people teach!
PS #2 – Everything in my products is “gender neutral”. It all works via, and comes from the MIND my friend. Get that part down pat, you’ll attract it all into your life willy nilly, on auto pilot almost…
PPS – And if you dont enjoy it from the heart, my friend, it will never work long term. It’s not all about money. Do what you love with enough passion, heart and conviction and persistence, the money will come as a by product. Its that simple. WAY too many people confuse fetish (especially findom and such) with “Easy money” … It’s NOT about that long term my friend.
PPS #1 – Lots of you have gotten products, but not left reviews. Please do so NOW.
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