Par suit: You can call me since now, not Madam, not Lady, but Milady “Countess de la Fére”.
When your day starts like that – albeit you woke up two hours before you normally do, you gotta think two things – one, its going to be an awesome day, two?
I’m glad I woke up that early!
I was going to make this one about “why are nights so short!”
And often times when in bed – or at the foot of, hehe – with a lady, I’d be thinking just that.
I’d be pressing her legs, her feet – I’d be exhausted, doze off, then I’d wake up – abruptly!
Sometimes, with things tugging at my ear – as y’all know, or if you dont, the Krystal – the Teaching Assistant series explains it so well – perfect Madam SUGAR would often tie my ears to the bedpost so I could literally not move all night – even if I had to pee, I had to control it … and I’d be staring at her soles all night long, not that I needed to be forced to massage them, but it was more physical symbolism if that makes any sense!
Even if that wasn’t there, it’s so romantic, pressing her legs as she snores, sleeping like a man!
I remember an SO once saying about Pooja Memsahib .. ji!
“Wo soti hai, pati per dabata hai!”
She sleeps, the husband pressed her legs, which in her case at the time was true – she was the breadwinner.
The world famous “Pooja Memsahib… JI!” series.
Somehow, “service” is seeing as a feminine domain, which is utterly foolish. This, of course could be a whole another post, but I’m putting it all in ONE since it all came to me that way – I was discussing with that same SO (no prizes for guessing who) about how being overly domineeering etc to kids is not good – unless it’s a kid like me who manages to find a way to make some good come out of it ultimately, such as THIS biz! – and about how “men are not supposed to cry”, and other BS, and then I told her about how my Dad would keep complaining (after reducing me to a nervous wreck when young) when I “cried”.
You’re a man! You’re not supposed to cry!
Hey, I was 14, Dad, not like you gave me any sort of “manly” confidence – I had to build that part of me myself and that took time (though now that it’s done, hehe – I’ve got two very distinct personalities I love and switch between so! muah xx).
But anyway, my SO was saying it’s all BS.
Honey, I know, I kept telling her.
What I should have told her, for a manly man who has always had a penchant for long hair and everything feminine – well – she was preaching to the choir!
Cardinal rule though – and an affirmation – learn from her even if you already know what she is saying! 😘🤭😉
I’ve always done that … Hehe. So should YOU if you are truly into femdom.
Princess Joanie agreed, for one.
She’d often wake up, and then I’d rise to make breakfast, but Madam would go back to sleep.
“Not now”, she’d growl sleepily and crankily, and I’d start massaging again, tired though I was.
Humiliation Central featuring Princess Joanie!
So nice, those long night, so romantic, true love, NO sex for me – just for HER, as was the case with Madam Su, true servitude…
Anyway, where I am going with this LONG post?
Which could have been three posts? hehe.
Well, that first line you saw up there is what Madam Paula wrote to me!
She has been doing SUCH A SUPERLATIVE job on her affiliate work – that I cannot praise her enough, much like I couldn’t and cannot praise her efforts at translation enough!
And she’s even working on her own website HERE – https://paulabandarendon.wordpress.com/. (her social info is on that site, I believe she got some of it wrong initially, but I corrected it, it should be OK now).
Now, with wordpress.com, it’s a free service, as with anything in life, you get what you pay for, and she’s not a tech “girl” like I am, hehe, so naturally with their constraints on adult content etc, she sometimes gets frustrated.
What must I do Mike? Because I have asked for my edition problem with the
forum in wordpress, but I have had the next answer, and after read it, I think
that wordpress does not like my page. What do you think? I am thinking that
they are saying that they are going to mark a “fleur de liz” on my shoulder like
Athos’ wife in “The three musketeers”. I feel fear. Please tell me something.
Perhaps we are very bad people that stinks, doesn’t matter that we put on us
the best and expensive perfumes and we are the cleanest people that exist
in the world.
(then she sent a link for wordpress.com TOS on mature content)
Par suit: You can call me since now, not Madam, not Lady, but Milady “Countess de la Fére”.
And thats what I woke up to!
Reminds me of a certain Empress Cody … hehe.
“Show me your bare chested picture!”
“Call me Empress, not Goddess!”
And the books detail all that, and YES, those were the first things she said.
YES, Madam was – is – married.
And she showed her husband that too, he didnt even “mind” – because she wanted to see me bare chested, and probably nude too – but I’ll let you read the books for what happened there. Hehe.
And coming from Paula Ma’am – or Countess Paula, as the case might be … (that femme fatale ala “Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct”) … well … !
Hi Countess (😁 ),
Thanks for the three emails – first off, thanks for the video link -they keep getting better and better and BETTER! I love how you put your personal comments in red in the Indian femdom compilation video, as well as what you are saying, of course at the end …
I love the “Countess de la Fére” part too, hehe. You know, I read the Wikipedia entry on her –
She is described as being 22 years old, tall, fair-haired and uncommonly beautiful, with brilliant blue eyes and black lashes and brows, Milady possesses a voice that can seduce and bewitch.
A capable and intelligent French spy who effortlessly can pass as a native Englishwoman, Milady’s beautiful exterior hides a diabolically cunning, manipulative, ruthless and cruel interior; she is remorseless and unrepentant for her countless “misdeeds” and often described as appearing demonic and frighteningly ugly in the instant when she is thwarted in her aims. She is a classic example of a femme fatale.
Milady later is revealed to be the wife of Athos, originally the Comte de la Fère, one of the three musketeers of the novel’s title.
This could be me, if you reverse the genders, etc (although with what I write about gender, and what I was talking to today about a lady about “boys displaying emotion” etc – hehe – I dont know that would be necessary?) … Hehe.
Anyway, that reminded me of a certain lady “Cody” – who preferred being called “Empress“. Hehe. The first thing this lovely lady did upon meeting me was want my “bare chested” photo – and she even showed it to her husband, if you can believe that! “because she wanted to see”. Chinese girls, truly LOVELY – Haha.
Anyway, Countess – getting back to it – the website looks GREAT! I love the way you’re setting up – I’d recommend putting more text on it (which you are, obviously – I saw the “why” part below the pictures) – but the way it’s set up is great – I’d also recommend linking the pictures i.e. right now you have your links beneath the pics which is fine, but some people may just directly click the pictures – a lot of people do, so that might be worth a try.
Haha, I know what you mean by people putting on expensive perfumes etc and thinking “that is all we need to do”, and acting all prim and proper, high and mighty etc “in society” – while behind closed doors, these people have all the same fantasies and more, except because they do not have the freedom to or do not WANT the freedom to (I’m a huge believer in if one truly wants something, one will eventually get it) indulge in those fetishes safely – well- that is why in countries like India there is so much violence against women for one, so much “male frustration” etc … all this from the land that produced the Kamasutra, if you can believe that!
Or, the subcontinent in general, China – and Asia in general other than that part has improved vastly in that regard …
I run a fitness site as you might have guessed from reading “Miss V Beauty Salon” and some of my other books – and I say the same thing there, simply because someone puts on fancy clothes and perfume etc doesnt mean they’re “clean” – internally, they’re often dirtier than the laborers who sweat outside everyday and exercise a lot, thereby ridding their body of internal toxins! Hehe. But it’s true. . .
So back to your website – what was the issue with it, ie. why did you contact support? I saw this part “Because I have asked for my edition problem with theforum in wordpress, ” – but not sure what you meant there – please let me know, and I’ll do my best to help out.
The problem with hosting on wordpress.com is this, Madam Countess Paula – the service is free, but as with everything in life, you get what you pay for – even your content is pretty much “owned by WordPress” (if you read their TOS). So their support etc … it all depends upon “if they support mature content” or not … it’s allowed, yes, but whether or not they provide tech support for mature content is another story!
Let me know what the exact issue is, I’ll do my best to help.
It’s certainly a day for LONG emails – this one is long – and the one I sent her was long too. I sent her a lot after that about .. ah, but why not just post it HERE – maybe it might help some of YOU TOO!
Have you ever considered purchasing your own domain name Paula? That might be a good step, that way, you’re free of wordpress.com – and you can build/host your own site (using wordpress software) wherever you want … without many of the “terms and conditions” and restrictions that come with wordpress.com (such as you cannot access your HTML Code directly, I believe, on wordpress.com sites) …
In other words, to put it plainly with wordpress.com they can take your site down at any time – or stop providing support etc since it’s “mature content”. I’m not saying they will, but that chance is there, no matter how remote – since you are doing this for the long term obviously, that is something you should be aware of.
For you, I think the best route to go would be to get your own domain name and then do what you are doing right NOW i.e. build your own website – but on a hosting platform where you are “free” and not bound by excessive terms and conditions if that makes sense – not to mention, wordpress.com sites are sometimes not that great for SEO (although this is not set in stone – it all ultimately comes down to content and performance).
These sort of websites are best hosted on platforms that either outright allow or tolerate adult content, wordpress.com is not one of them unfortunately.
Of course, dedicated adult web hosting would not be free – you know this already – that is actually one of my “side businesses” i.e. I develop websites and host them for clients …but, I think long term that would be the best way for you go …
In your case, if you did decide to go down that route – I have servers where you could host your website, keep building it yourself as you see fit, and of course, I’d be happy to help out with “technical questions” as I am now – obviously no constraints there! : ) With regard to cost etc, we could always work out an agreement … I would be happy to get you “started” for free, even, if that is a route you choose to go down … (of course, we would need to discuss it, make a plan etc, thats business – but you have that option – please know I am more than willing and happy to help you with web hosting and that sort of thing if need be).
(it would still be YOUR site, YOU would have full control over it (and therefore responsibility etc), I would not even have the password – I would simply be doing what wordpress.com does – just so you understand. Hehe ).
(But, I can provide some pretty good infrastructure for you to host on – I know, because I spent months building it for spicyanderoticfetish and all my other websites! Haha).
Just putting it out there – I think that would be the very best way for you to go – – but if you feel wordpress.com is a better alternative “for now” (until you start to make sales) then that is not necessarily a bad decision either, but yes, you’ll be operating per their constraints obviously…
Let me know if all of this makes sense, and we can go from there.
Cheers – – and KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK, Countess!
(PS – I had asked you this in one of my last emails, but not sure if you saw it – but either way, I am going to put your link in “our partners” section – I highly recommend YOU do the same, Countess! Just create a “footer” at the bottom like I do on my sites, and put the link in – will be great for SEO.
If you do decide to move from wordpress.com, there are ways in which the existing website can be moved over – so dont worry about that – keep building it as you are!).
From fetish to IT, we truly “Cover it all” dont we. Hehe.
And fitness too, as fans of Miss V would know!
But anyway, those are my thought on the prim and proper type, and Paula, she’s just been doing such a superb job, that I’ll end off with the latest video she sent – and some “clips” from it …
And in the lady’s own words …
Well, my friend, those are MORE heartfelt reviews (and if you’re on this list, you’ve read all Paula’s reviews already!) .. if all of that doesnt make you stop what you are doing and get to buying some of our stuff NOW – then I dont know what (or if) will!
And, be sure and listen to what she is saying at the end, about it all being subjective, about slavery, all of it … its all so superbly done!
Yes, Countess, people just do what they know – and aren’t willing to learn – and therefore limit themselves in terms of what is possible.
I learned years ago, either by chance or circumstance – that is NEVER the good way.
The egocentric and selfish world, indeed, a whole new world awaits on the other side!!!!
PS – Paula obviously wouldn’t massage me …
But Madam, I dont know if you’ll read this, for all your hard work, I’d gladly massage you all night, Mi Lady Countess as you say … Hehe.
and I would!