Submission in REAL life – and more…

All of my writing, teaching, even domination or submission – is as close to real life as it gets, even in fantasy world. That’s what makes it real and even more of a turn on!

Watching an Indian maid clean the balcony railings with a “geela kapda” (wet cloth) her “Madam” told her to – I was thinking of a lot of things, and what Madam Angie once told me during my very extreme submission to her – “but you’re the real boss!”.

It was not about me topping from the bottom either. Hehe.

In real life, maids, a section of Indian society a LOT fantasize about but have very little luck with sexually overall – are treated like utter crap.

Spoken to like kids, yelled at, demeaned daily etc. It’s improving now, but not near as much as it should be – at least in the subcontinent. Especially the language – there’s several ways to say “you” in the subcontinent – one with respect, one sort of neutral, and one clearly signifying “you’re below me”. (All subcontinental languages have this, something I’ve not seen in China or any other ancient cultures).

I’ve never been that rude to them.

Imperious and dominant yes, but always that degree of politeness that matters.

Externally, idiots think that reduces my control over them and that “they expect rudeness” so I’m displaying “weakness” by being polite.

BS.

They, and all followers expect guidance and leadership overall.

I’ve always been a Benevolent Emperor.

You could either bark orders at her like she doesn’t matter, or order her nicely while still treating her like a woman. Either way, you’re still the boss.

I often wondered for years why I didn’t treat these women as disrespectfully as most in the subcontinent do. Now I know.

As Bhagwati says about some of her employers – they think I’m just trash.

She would never say that about me, though it’s clear who the boss is, several rungs above her on the social scale…

Ultimately, she’ll want to do better work for (without being told or forced) – and be in bed with the guy or employer that treats her like a human.

Fetish wise, similar dynamic.

Now of course fetish wise, you have to be brutal and use words etc that affect subs deeply, that they WANT.

But even there, an indirect command, a mere flick of the fingers, words spoken are enough to remind the sub whose really in charge – and that’s probably why even after releasing slaves from my stable, they still refer to me as Master because “it just feels right” and as I keep telling them – for them, I’ll always be Master Sir anyway.

Remember this in real life too.

For real subservience to you, you have to blend in the benevolent with the dictator – something most miserably fail at.

And that, my friends is that.

If you haven’t picked up 25 odes to Indian maids that deserve it …SO! – then you owe it to yourself to pick this sizzling hot manual up NOW.

You’ll learn a lot from it, both from a submissive and dominant standpoint.

And that’s that!

Best

Mike Watson