And thats the ideal footslave, is it not?
Lots of people have this idea, and I’ve debunked it TIME AND TIME again – and you on this list would probably understand this – and empthasize – that “submissives” are “weak”.
Truly submitting is one of the toughest and STRONGEST THINGS you can ever do, you’re giving over your heart, soul, mind and emotions to her – FOR HER – at her service, beck and call – and you’re PROTECTING her while doing that!
I once remembered a story the great Jeff Bezos spoke about “eating our weight in pancakes” – and apparently he did the dishes too later!
Weak? I dont think so my friend!
Point #4 in “A complete guide to understanding dominant ladies from the Chinese mainland” mentions something very important. Perhaps it’s the most important point in the entire book, that being, no-one wants a doormat.
And that is KEY.
Along with this, no-one wants a sub to top from the bottom either.
The key is to find the right balance, COMMUNICATION as always is key!
And remember, Ying and Yang.
Some of the most powerful men and women in this world are docile as a housecat (well, most of ’em, hehe) in bed – and vice versa.
It takes all types.
We all have shades of X and Y in us – I keep saying this repeatedly, and I told a young lady this the other day “there is no need to be ashamed of that other thing you’re curious about!”
Most people lead double lives, which is fine – the trouble is, most people dont acknowledge their deepest, “darkest” (often not so dark) desires -and it remains that way their entire life, which is sad.
We only have one life – why not make the best of it?
Be the best slave for her that you can, my friend.
Be strong, rugged – manly – turning her ON – and yet, be submissive to her enough that she knows what is TRUE – she is always on TOP!
And that is what every woman, dominant or not – really wants …
Alright, thats that. We’re on Audible now too – so you’ll be hearing our audio books too – I’ll be putting up a special section on this site as and when the books are ready!
P.S. – Almost forgot – who does pushups etc? Well, one of the narrators for our projects – which isn’t surprising – yours truly does them too, I learned them from the best! Some of the toughest guys are truly some of the most submissive sometimes, so it SHOULD BE FOR MADAM!
In this case, Madam Carrie is that Madam. Hee. Be on the lookout for more on this!
dang, those fingernails – I still remember ’em. So nice. Ma’am, Paye Lagu. YOU’RE TRULY SO NICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!