… something I’ve never seen spoken about though it should and must be!
…Is blindly fucking OBVIOUS
… Yet never spoken about
And as I wrote about in pathbreaking ONE of a kind book – A complete guide to understanding dominant ladies from mainland China – it’s a huge turn off much like the other thing I mention and keep mentioning.
Topping from the bottom which more men are guilty of than women. In fact precious FEW women do this!
I’ve never – not once – written about this.
Not once!
Amazing I haven’t. Noone else has either.
But it needs to be mentioned.
And no it’s not just ladies guilty of the above. Men are too but in Probably EQUAL measures on this one.
As a man, the target audience for the book – the conundrum as you’ll read about?
The most dominating of woman will end up, while enjoying your submission GREATLY want to submit to YOU too.
And you have to handle this well. Hehe.
Like I keep saying – if you’re not truly into it it doesn’t feel right
Therefore doesn’t work.
Same thing in Cuck Central.
By nature dominating you brutally is beyond her caring nature – if she likes you.
But that doesn’t mean she can’t.
Like Carol giggled after I explained it to her.
“This can do with boyfriend!”.
Hehe. Cute English!
Mental conditioning FIRST is not just key. It’s paramount. Conversation DOES rule the nation first. It simply will NOT work right any other WAY!!
Men are actually less likely to sometimes do this but they feel uncomfortable doing it too sometimes.
And no I’m not referring to pure assholes here either.
That’s NOT BDSM.
Key as always as explained in ALL my books and manuals?
You gotta give first before you can truly recieve with COMPOUND interest in HEAPING measures. Emersons laws of Compensation that I HAVE mentioned so much before and RIGHTFULLY so guarantees this!
Walk a mile in the other person’s shoes first from either standpoint.
And then you’ll get it and might not even need me any more. .but I’ll be glad if you best my expertise at all this and publicly say it. Hehe but remember I’m always learning too. So….
Stiff competition – no pun.
But you Will miss my lovely gorgeous SOLES, feet. NO comparison or competition even there. Hehe.
Back to it – pun –
BDSM done right is true LOVE or as close as it gets to it, whatever it is.
Somehow I’m STILL unable to define it.
Can YOU ❓
….
I didn’t think so. Hee hee!
I don’t blame you.
BDSM truly exposes your CORE at its most vulnerable and to trust the other person FULLY, completely, no holds BARRED – well…
…. Enough said. I think you get the point!
And that’s that.
Remember your Femdom affirmations too!
Best
Mike Watson
PS – Was quite interesting training the girls in Sin City Diaries from this regard. Top or bottom?? YOU decide!!!
I know.
I know…!
Another DICHOTOMY!
Makes it all the MORE interesting.
Life is truly FUN.
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