PRACTICAL vs textbook knowledge.

The latter without the former is almost always useless. I’d argue completely do when it comes to BDSM, essentially a mind game over ALL – anything else is just either topping from the bottom or, and these are almost the same thing – topping from the bottom.

Or bottoming from the top. Very much exists! Yin and yang.

Why people up and block otherwise intelligent people with whom they can have rational discourse and mostly even agree with has always been beyond me.

Yeah. Block that which you don’t want and that which you do want appears instantly.

But people, and especially as social media is starting to die out – huge accounts even with lack of proper engagement – I had predicted this years ago – people are taken it to giddy desperate limits. Yes, the desperation shows.

An otherwise intelligent Indian lady just blocked me for saying this – wanting her to put her soles on your face even when she wants to give you a blowjob which you want equally.

Hey, let’s face it.

Conundrum and a real one.

Especially with real men with a real brand of submission that every woman ultimately wants.

I prefaced it by saying how I end up calling maids, massueses etc – women FAR so called below my so called high social strata queens and goddesses, abc treat them accordingly despite paying them to be pampered myself.

Truly, as Maria said – you’re kind!

True.

But I’m also a realist and real sub. Hehe.

I hadn’t pointed Madam to the Sin City Diaries pages. Maybe I should have.

Instead I made a comment of how you HAVE to, no exceptions – be in the other persons shoes first.

The best Doms are also the best subs of were at some point and vice versa. Simple yin and yang.

Her response was she didn’t need that.

Because she’s a pyscologist to which I responded, just to be polite, that she’s experienced it in her mind.

She hasn’t. Clear as daylight. Haha.

And the exception that might be her SO does not disprove that general rule holding true for just about everything in life, especially fetish. You just can’t get in the mental frame otherwise.

There is a reason I’m called an Emperor by women despite everything else. It’s not topping from the bottom. Far from it!

She’s probably below 25.

And that’s fine. She’ll mature and turn into a lovely older lady – the kind I write about so often, so well warranted – someday!

It’s always about dialog – constructive dialog.

Conversation does rule the nation so long as it’s logical without personal attacks.

She called me a creep for something perfectly normal. Inexperience speaking.

Probably the older indian and Chinese ladies that blocked me for excessive simping done right on their non fetish accounts have it RIGHT.

Hehe.

I can feel it.

Ponder all that.

And remember to pick up the manual of your choice here.

Best

Mike Watson