Why actual “coitus” is far less important than what most people think – especially for us fetish/femdom lovers!

I suspect what I have to say here might not just interest, but make most reading this “identify with me!”

Princess Lucy, whose wechat I recently “lost” – added me back. (I asked her to – I had her whatsapp etc, for some strange reason – wechat “disappeared”??) …

“You have too many girls to chat to, so you lose my ID!”  she said. 

And it’s a refrain that has been repeated so often that it’s “normal” for me to hear this. Hehe.

Yes, yours truly cucked – probably has had more women than most studs have, and still does.

Confused?

Well, a SO of mine once asked about a relationship – a very hot and steamy one I had “before her” – some thing that never quite ended until today, the lovely Carol I believe …

She was confused when I told her sex wasn’t the highlight, despite our holidays together, despite the steaminess, the romance, the hot “sex” in other ways …

She was confused when I told her about what I mention in the book “A complete guide to understanding dominant ladies from the mainland” in which yours truly (in those experiences) was the exact opposite of submissive, and enjoying EVERY minute.

“What did you do with her then!” she blurted out. 

And this is common too!

For most people, “been with many women” means “coitus” – period.

Maybe blowjobs etc, but mostly – coitus!

And if you dont have coitus, you “didnt do it”.

More retarded thinking from the Bozo factory this …

First, for most people, and all it should be actually, it’s about EMOTIONAL BONDING!

That isn’t just sissy talk.

To me, sex – even regular sex – is SO MUCH BETTER when you can at least connect with the woman on SOME LEVEL!

If its just robotic wham bam thank you Ma’am – I’d rather NOT have that notch on the bedpost (curiously, this attitude has gotten me the opposite of zero notches. Hehe).

I want it to be INTERESTING!

Like I wrote another guy said the other day, life’s boring enough already.

Without kink involved in sex, we just dont get turned on!

And the kink – and exposing it to our partners – gets us CLOSER to them than just with regular sex.

And to me, thats what it’s always been about!

As for physical acts, I’ve never understood why cumming in someone’s mouth is “less” than “down there”?

Or “back there”?

Sometimes the last feels best, usually, to me, the first! (unless someone is doing the last to ME, hehe).

Its about an open mind.

Women understand better too than men, that men with stronger emotional connections are far likely to get more …

To me, therefore, the “type of sexual activity” isnt that important.

To me, so long as its something that turns me on, and her (sometimes she’s just doing it to get paid!) – then it counts.

All counts, hehe, just like all my books count – truly the very best Ever!

And they’re now in hardcover format too – many of them.

Check them out here – Chinese femdom compilations – and check out The Garima Madam Reader, the latest addition to our hardcover femdom bookshelf, “truly keeping you rock hard, and MORE!”.

Best,

Mike Watson

PS – For me, most of my real serious relationships didnt even start out with a hint of any sort of sex involved. It was just friendship, bonding, feeling SO comfortable together. ..

A lady once told me in 1999 (I know! – but that refrain has been repeated)

“I feel very nice talking to you, comfortable, other than (insert name), you’re the only man I could take back home comfortably and not have to worry about anything (i.e. expectation of sex)”.

No, she didnt know about my submissive tendencies though she might have felt them, hehe.

Bozos only into “getting it” will never understand this, of course…