Is femdom an addiction?

As I got a message from Madam Annie today (remember her??) I was nigh delighted – because I hadn’t spoken to her in a long, long time.

This regal boss lady – or one of them, hehe – is usually always busy with work and kids, so we don’t speak a lot, but when we do …can we say FIREWORKS? Hehe …

And as I messaged her back, I asked her how she was, and how work, life and everything else was.

No response as yet, but I’m sure she’ll reply when she’s free, and I’ll keep you posted. But for now, I just thought of a question that popped into my mind, and that many people have “accused” me of in the past (well, not many – – but a few serious “ex’s” have).

There’s been a lot written about how femdom – findom – or any such kink can turn into a nigh on addiction and take over your LIFE – quite literally.

I’ve read TRUE stories of Findommes literally contacting their subs asking them to take their money back – so they could have money to buy – get this – FOOD for their families (and no, that ain’t on my friend – regardless of how sexy it might sound at the time!).

Fantasy is fantasy, and reality is reality. There is always a fine line in the sand, but does that ever get blurred? Can it?

I’d say heck yes!

To me, femdom is more than just an “addiction”.

I’d say it’s who I am (at a certain level) deep deep down inside (any wonder why I attract femdom to me like moths to a flame??) – – and it’s not just something you can “turn off”.

Do you remember the First Blood movie series?

Stallone did a pretty good at the first installment after it all became “popcorn munching” (but still fun in a way, hehe) flick time … but at the end of the first movie, he goes off on a tangent in some sort of an indecipherable rant (sort of) … saying “you don’t just turn it off” when his mentor and friend literally begs him with him to put down his weapons and stop the carnage.

From that point of view though, what Stallone said was understandable. You don’t just mould a person into something and then ask ‘em to turn the switch off. It just ain’t happening, my friend.

Fast forward to First Blood – part III and (and I’v ementioned this in the sequel to the Indian Goddess series) – – Trautman and a far more “mature” Rambo find themselves face to face as the former tells Rambo –

“We didn’t make you this fighting machine. We simply chipped away the rough edges. The sculpture was always there!

You’ll always be tearing away at yourself until you come to terms with who you really are – a full blooded fighter, and ..”

To this, Rambo responds “Not any more! I don’t want it!”

“Too bad! You’re stuck with it!”

“…until you come full circle”.

Now, for those familiar with the movie, you’ll notice that I messed up the order of the dialogue a bit, but hey, you get the point. And it rings true.

And point is this – femdom doesn’t necessarily have to be taken to giddy limits to continue being a SAFE and worthwhile addiction for both men and women!

You do NOT need to sell off your house and car to pay your finDomme (but yes, she does deserve it! ?)

You do not need to bend down, or kneel and kiss your wife’s feet EVERY Time she comes home.

And conversely, for women, you don’t have to have the femdom thing going 24/7 – – and indeed, the allure would fade in that case.

But as far as it being an addiction goes?

Well, it’s more than an addiction, hehe, I’d say – at least for me, and I suspect for many others around the globe. It’s MORE than an itch that can be scratched occasionally.

It’s part of YOU, if you’re doing things right – and you can’t just turn it on and off on occasion!

And that’s key to attracting femdom (or submissive males if you’re a woman) to you in all its shapes, forms and guises. And that key can only make itself available if you are CONDITIONED right.

I speak about the importance of repetition and conditioning a lot in my posts, and there is good reason behind this.

And if you want to get started on YOUR conditioning journey today, well, then “A complete guide to understanding dominant ladies from the Chinese mainland” is where you’ll want to, and SHOULD start!

And HERE is where you can get this little ditty my friend.

And that’s that from me – for now! Back soon …

Best,

Mike Watson

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