Findom – an integral part of TRUE femdom

Dear Reader,

So last night I was greeted by yet another message on my Instagram account from a “supposed sub” – from the “desperate” manner in which he was messaging me, willy nilly, non-stop without even bothering to ask if I was free to chat or communicate with him (ladies, does that sound familiar??!) – he seemed to be a guy – and NOT  – or nowehere NEAR being a true male submissive.

That’s key, by the way.

If you’re a true male submissive you don’t message women out of the blue without either getting to know them first – or tributing them – or making yourself useful in some way!

(and no, sending dick pics does NOT count! Ugh).

And if you’re a true male sub (again) – then you know – it’s HER God(dess) given right to contact YOU out of the blue – – as has happened to me on so many – oh, so many, if not ALL occasions I’ve experienced true femdom.

We attract who we ARE at a base level and while you “fake” male submissives CAN condition yourself mentally to become real submissiveness – the fact remains that in terms of femdom, she always has the right to approach – choose – and reject.

Recently I read a story about some guy whose a crossdresses (heterosucksual, as the article put it!) – who was miffed at the amount of attention his Domina was getting at “play” parties.

Huh?? As a true male submissive, that should be TURNING HIM ON! Unless he’s one of those whiny types, of course …

Anyway, this brings me to a very central point, my friend.

Do NOT expect her to take any – I repeat – ANY – interest in you unless you have something to OFFER!

Now, I don’t necessarily mean money – in fact, most Dominas do NOT prefer solely “money” in a submissive. They want intelligence – compassion – and a true understanding of what femdom really is – NOT what it’s commonly made out to be i.e. toppping from the bottom.

And ONCE all that is in order, it’s time to go to the next level – and hand over control of your bank account, boy!

After all, once you realize that you’re little less than the dirt beneath her lovely, perfect feet – soles – then it’s but a natural extension to WORSHIP her as a Goddess.

Cook. Clean. Help her get ready for dates with other men that YOU pay for. Ask her for permission to buy things for yourself – although you’re the one that’s providing!

You provide, so she can control – and dominate and if you’re a true male submissive, this should turn you on immensely – more than anything else!

That above part, of course would disqualify 95% of so called subs out there (ladies, again, does this sound familiar?) – but for me, I know the SEXIEST part about Madam Pearl, for one – wasn’t simply her soles – or the look in her eye – or the sissification – or the cooking and cleaning …

It was the way in which she sent me screenshots of what she wanted – and ordered me to BUY!

It was the dominant, imperious manner in which I’d carry her purse and open it while standing behind her in lingerie stores, as the salesgirls giggled, knowing fully well what was going on (it’s China, hehe) – – and she’d take out RED RMB bills … and SPEND!

It was the manner in which she’d casually deny me permission to my own bank account – while use freely at her own will – and giggle away about it!

Money is in a way freedom – and once you give that up to your lady – your superior, dominant Lady – then you’re well and truly getting into femdom.

And on a parting note, in case all this doesn’t convince you to drop down to your knees, beg to lick her soles and buy her gifts (and thank her for the privilege) – -remember that in ALL cases, the Universe requires you to GIVE FIRST – and get later!

And if you give enough – get you will, my friend.

Oh yes you will – in terms of TRUE femdom which is what you CRAVE – and given I’ve given a lot – is it any wonder I GET along the same lines – and more – with compound interest as it were??

Something to ponder – – and on that note, its adios for now. I’ll be back again soon!

Best,

Mike Watson

P.S. – Along with giving up control of your bank account – you SHOULD give up control of your cock too. Remember, as Madam Ann said, “I don’t like having sex too often, except for health purposes!” You have sex – or any release – when she deems it necessary! And this rule, and other rules are mentioned in the immensely popular “Cuck Central” – a manual you really must grab right NOW – – right here – – https://spicyanderoticfetish.com/manuals/cuck-central/