Well, its been a bit of a lengthy break again from posting, and for that I do apologize.
I’ve been dealing with a lot of (unrelated to fetish) biz as of late, and it’s kept me quite busy for a while …. but you know what they say, anf what I say, don’t you?
We can never really get away from who we TRULY are – – and who we attract into your lives – and indeed, WHAT as well.
We attract that – or those things we think and FEEL about at a deep, deep level, and my chance meeting with “Beata” – – or Madam Beata, as I refer to her now 😉 – was no coincidence either.
She’s a business contact, granted, but she’s more than that … for now, at least, hehe. And if I do business with her, which I most probably will, I certainly won’t be one of the customer who “complain all day long” according to her.
“If there’s a problem, I’ll kiss your feet and request you to …”
(and I would!)
Snicker, snicker. And before I could finish, pat came the response.
“Yes, you have to pay – and listen to me. Thats why I hope I can find more customers like you!”
Anyway thats a topic for another email. For now, I’ve been talking to another lady over the past day or so – Janet – and we’ve been discussing some interesting things.
Now, a lot of ladies these days prefer NOT to use their real pictures online, and who can blame em?
Most men look at the picture and add women – – and being that Janet’s one of the smarter ladies out there, she’s put an extremely attractive picture out there, and of course, men add her in droves – only to “get disappointed” when they find out it’s not her!
As she rightly said though, it helps her sift through the bullshit – and find people that are genuinely interested in HER as a person, as opposed to just the picture.
Now why am I saying this?
Well, I was talking to her about how I’ve had good experiences with Chinese girls, and …
“You’re not a woman” she laughed. “Or I’d ask you about dating Chinese men – and men in general! What a nightmare!”
And I agreed- – and why?
Most guys never get past the initial “getting to know her” stage – and even if they try – it’s not a really sincere effort, and women can see past that.
Most guys are in it for “quickies”, and what they can get out of it – while most women, if not ALL I’ve encountered are usually most interested in what I am – i.e. getting to KNOW the person first on a deep level before doing anything else!
Unfortunately, the vast majority of men out there aren’t on the same page there – and this is not just me saying that – or a Chinese gal saying that – I’ve heard it from women ALL over the world.
Guys – get to KNOW her first – and only then bring up anything else – BDSM included!
Anyway, as Janet rightly said, it’s easier for me in many regards since I’m a man. For her, it’s a matter of sifting through all the B.S. before she finally finds someone decent enough to talk to – someone that treats her like a human – or (preferably ;)) puts her on a pedestal and worships the ground she walks on.
That wasn’t her saying that, of course. It was me, and with good reason!
Hey, plenty of girls around this neck of the woods put guys on a pedestal – when they don’t deserve to be. Truth be told, it’s far better – and more interesting – and better overall – when the “more sensible” of the human species leashes the male and keeps him under control – any sort of control – and that is a fact yours truly fully agrees with!
“Thats why women use men – and hey, Janet. I can’t blame them in that regard!”
And ’tis true, my friend. ‘Tis true – and if you think about it – you’ll probably find yourself agreeing as well to a certain extent!
All for now – I’ll be back later!
P.S. – I’ll have more on Madam Beata and how it’s “either her way or the highway” even in terms of doing biz – and how we BOTH enjoy it – but for now, here’s a nifty little manual you might want to grab if your truly interested in finding the dominant lady of your DREAMS – – https://spicyanderoticfetish.com/books/for-true-male-subs/